Help with solenoid diagnosis

So i’ve been doing some work on the grizz 600 finally thought i thought i had it pinned down to the relay. i ordered a brand new one off of eBay from caltric, and when it go here the connector was not the same as the original, so i spliced them together and here is what’s going on NOW!!!!
I’m posting this quick video to show what is happening and i’m hoping that someone can help me out.
Is this relay bad?
Does anyone have experience with the relays from caltric??

https://youtu.be/-kTgMLMeCa8