Can-am owner thinking of jumping ship. Need advice.

So I have always had can-ams. I currently ride a 2013 2 seater commander 1000 in Alabama. Slow trail riding and rocks some mud. I also go to Windrock every year. My 2 seater commander beats me to death and bucks so I am over it.
Overwhelmingly I am told a 4 seater 2014, 2015, or 2016 polaris 1000 xp will ride like I am on cotton and clouds as far as the suspension goes when it comes to rocky and rutted trails. It is just me and my wife, so we don’t need 4 seats, but if it rides better, sucks up rough terrain, and goes over rocks and hills better, then I want a 4 seater.I can’t get past all the problems polaris rzr 1000 4 seater owners have with the bikes. Not sure if I should ditch the 4 seater idea and just buy a can-am x3 right now. Should I wait for an x3 4 seater to show up? So confused.
Thanks for anyone that can give me some good advice. I am lost.